Three people last week let me know the reason my job search is tough is because “black women” are “given” all the good jobs.

I have heard this so often I have an auto-response. “I’m sorry you feel that way. That has not been my experience. I’ll let you know if I find evidence that this is how the world works.”

Calling out family members or acquaintances for their racist bullshit doesn’t change their minds, help me start a new adventure, or make the world a better place.